Yes, let’s take a good and thorough look at why moving forward (success) from your current state seems to be a huge challenge for you. I know you might want to take this lightly saying this write-up is a total crap. Just sit back, relax and read through carefully.
Many have always cursed their forefathers, parents, friends, villagers, Landlords, or people around them for their failures and misfortunes, but honestly, that’s a very wrong perspective to look at things. The only way you can solve a problem is by first identifying the problem in that way you can come up with a better solution, which is why I present this calmly engineered article to help you identify those issues and problems preventing you from taking a step forward from your current state.
- INABILITY TO TAKE RISKS
Your inability to take calculated risks in life is the number one and actual reason you are still where you are today. You can’t move forward or change your current state by playing safe. Sail away from the safe harbor and explore, it won’t kill you. Learn to take risks and take that risk now.
- FEAR OF FAILURE
Now this is accompanied by your inability to take risks, after taken calculated risks, do not be afraid of failing. In actual fact, failures are a huge part of success; you can only achieve true success by failing at least once. My dad will always say “Do not let the fear of failure be greater than the excitement of SUCCESS”
- INABILITY TO LEARN AND ACCEPT NEW THINGS
“Change is constant”. Abolish the habits of being stagnant, learn new things, develop your brain, yourself in general and evolve for the world you are living in has already evolved. Accept the fact that change is constant and be ready to change too but don’t ever forget your origin.
- THE BELIEVE THAT ONE HAS TO SWEAT TO MAKE IT
This is a very bad thought and believe, the more you think that you must toil the soil harder than normal, sweat more than usual and work your ass off like a crazy man does, the less successful you’ll become, successful people became successful through leverage by using their brains and minds and not their hands. If you do not begin to use your brains someone will employ you for a small token to use your hands. That is the biggest regret of life.
The resentful or unhappy feeling of wanting somebody else’s success, good fortune, qualities, and possessions is only but an eminent reason you are still where you are today. Jealousy, envy or covetousness keeps you focus on someone else’s growth, development and success and this blinds you of yourself in particular, you think less of how you can change your situation or state and more about the other person’s success.
Jealousy is indeed a road block to success. So abolish and eradicate those feelings or thought and focus more on your own personal growth and development. Immediately, you will see the change you yearn for in your situation.
So now you’ve successfully identified the problems so work hard on correcting every single one of them. Also please don’t forget to leave a comment below, it costs absolutely you nothing.